There is this person in my life with whom I can be completely myself.  I can say anything with no fear of being judged, ridiculed, or ignored. Sure, he may tease me, but our relationship is full of moments where we make fun of each other or laugh out loud at ourselves.

The connection we have with each other, which was quickly present soon after we began our relationship, continues to astound me.  Not only can he finish my sentences, but he has this ability to start talking about something that has been on my mind before I have a chance to share my thoughts. It is more than just being on the same wavelength. It is knowing your souls are connected and likely have been for thousands of years.

He is kind, gentle, sensitive and has this sense of humour that still surprises me.  When I get worked up about something, he is always able to calm my nerves.  The way he can handle stress is unbelievable. I worry that he is carrying it all in his heart, and fear that one day it won’t take anymore.  But, we’re working on that.

He is gifted in so many different ways.  He is an amazing cook, rarely using a recipe but creating, and re-inventing meals that would blow your mind.  His creativity is also expressed throughout our home; not only can he fix anything that breaks down but he can build things and put together our home so beautifully. He is the one who knows where the couch should be, and the best spot on the wall for a print; the decorating magazines were always subscribed and read eagerly by him.  It is he that does the ironing and sewing in our home, and will help out with cleaning when I ask with no complaining.

And, above all, everything he does and says is full of love and it is present in all his roles including father, husband, son, brother, and friend.  Even though yesterday was his birthday, I knew during the moments where he was sad it was because his 3 daughters are not here to celebrate with him and that he misses them incredibly.  And I knew he didn’t share this with me when I asked, to avoid making me sad too (but I already was).

Hubby, you are an amazing person and I am so grateful to have found you in this life.  Thank you for sharing your love with me, and being my best friend.

Happy Birthday, you Warrior of Light.